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Off Topic Personal HELP Requested.

Posted: May 17th, 2011, 5:49 pm
by mrsl
I know this is in the wrong place, but this is the only group I talk with that is made up of family grounded members. Most of my politicos are college age, and/or 20's and 30's who don't yet have children.

Naturally the whole family was excited when my littlest angel got a letter in the mail saying her teacher nominated her for a trip to Washington D.C. for a Junior National Young Leaders Conference, however, the cost of the trip seemed inordinately high for a middle school spring trip, even by air travel. Now, after looking it up on Google, Yahoo search, and Ask, I'm even more confused than before. The price comes into consideration for everyone, but the comments on the conference itself seem to be about 50/50 % divided. Having attended several seminars myself, I know they are only as good as you work at making them work for you. Some say they're happy their kids went, while others say send the kid to a summer camp instead. Has anyone here ever had any contact with this conference? The seminars I attended were for adults only and we chose our own lectures and work shops, but I would expect a seminar for middle school scholars would be rigidly formatted with every minute scheduled, but this seems to be more on the students choice because these are 'honor' students. However, her dad and I don't believe 11 years is old enough to spend a whole week on her own, even in a school environment.

Has anyone had any first hand knowledge of this conference through your kids or grandkids? We're talking a couple of thousand dollars here which Dad doesn't mind paying if it will benefit her, but some call it a scam and if that is the case, a broken heart and/or hurt feelings is better caused now than any other problem a thousand miles from home.

Re: Off Topic Personal HELP Requested.

Posted: May 17th, 2011, 7:24 pm
by ChiO
I realize that Wikipedia is hardly the most reliable source on the planet, but: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Junior_Nat ... Conference

From the few other sites I perused, probably the same ones you saw, my impression is: it can be a valuable personal experience, but don't expect it to have value in terms of college admission or resume building.

Like the Academy Awards, the real honor is in being nominated.

Re: Off Topic Personal HELP Requested.

Posted: May 17th, 2011, 10:22 pm
by pvitari
This is a for-profit company and IMHO, as someone who works at a university, it's a scam. You'd be better off spending the money taking the family on a well-planned trip to DC yourself.

Re: Off Topic Personal HELP Requested.

Posted: May 17th, 2011, 10:36 pm
by knitwit45
Anne, my two cents worth is this:
The world as we know it today is a scary place for ADULTS, and an eleven year old girl has no business being in it without a trusted family member to help guide her through it. Paula says scam, I say SCARY.

Re: Off Topic Personal HELP Requested.

Posted: May 18th, 2011, 6:36 am
by pvitari
It's a scary scam! :)

Throw that letter into the recycling bin.

Re: Off Topic Personal HELP Requested.

Posted: May 18th, 2011, 7:40 am
by knitwit45
absolutely!!!! And, the more I thought about it, I should have said an eleven year old CHILD.

Re: Off Topic Personal HELP Requested.

Posted: May 18th, 2011, 2:01 pm
by charliechaplinfan
Anne, our children go for a week at the end of junior school aged 11, they go with plenty of teachers and go as a class together to a retreat, even then some parents demure to send their children. I wouldn't feel happy to send either of my children when they are 11. Hope it helps.

Re: Off Topic Personal HELP Requested.

Posted: May 18th, 2011, 4:42 pm
by mrsl
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Thank you to all of you. I didn't mean to make it sound as if we were sending her off alone, although re-reading it, it certainly sounds like it. No, her dad would definitely go along, but he's checking now about sleeping arrangements. Those of us who have attended seminars, know that they are what you make them. If you go with the intention of listening and learning, they can be very good and helpful. If you go with the intention of having a week away from Mom and Dad, that is a different thing. Yes, I probably read the same search info that you did, Chio, and I do get the impression that those who wanted to learn did so, but those who expected parties all night were disappointed.


Thank you so much for your responses. You have been very kind.

It's hard to know you HAVE to hurt your beloved little gal's feelings because a letter like that seems like such a proud thing especially such a well behaved child as she, who rarely needs any kind of rebuke, so is not used to being denied much.[/color]

Re: Off Topic Personal HELP Requested.

Posted: May 19th, 2011, 1:07 pm
by charliechaplinfan
I hope it all turns out alright in the end, Anne. Children are very resilient, if you take the decision not to let her go her father could compensate her in some other way that would help towards her education and development.